" I left that Dr. ’s naming in tears and feel like a horrifying human being . "
Unfortunately, many people experience below-average care from their healthcare providers — and doctors are known to say bothcruelandtoxicthings to their patients. Now, Quora users aresharing the most ignorant thing they’ve heard from a medical doctor. The stories will make you sighheavily:
1.“I was a young, happy 10-year-old girl who had never thought about her weight. I wore comfortable shorts and wore tank tops all the time. One day, I went to our family doctor for a standard check-up. The doctor took out a weight chart. She pointed to a point on the chart and said, ‘This is the weight you should be for your age. ‘Then she pointed at another point on the chart and said, ‘And you’re way over here. You need to stop eating so much sugar and start exercising more.’
2.“When my daughter was 4, I took her to her yearly check-up. I told them she was still peeing at night so I was putting her in Pull-Ups. The doctor said the reason she was still peeing was because of the Pull-Ups and that I should immediately stop using them. I felt like a horrible mom, so I stopped putting them on her. For the next year, multiple times a week, she would wake me up because she wet the bed. I would help her change, strip her bed, and remake it. Some nights, I would just make her a bed on the floor. I was exhausted and cranky because I also had a newborn waking me up at night, and I was not always patient with her. A year later I went to a different doctor and told her of our dilemma. She asked why I wasn’t putting her in Pull-Ups., ARGGG! After that, we all slept through the night, and life was so much sweeter. She did, thankfully, grow out of it at age 8.”
3.“I grew up on a farm with roosters and chickens and got attacked by one. I ended up getting really sick, so my mother took me to urgent care. My mom told the doctor I had gotten badly injured and she was worried the wound was infected. The doctor asked how I had gotten hurt so my mom told him. The doctor, for whatever reason, thought that was hilarious. He bent over laughing. It was discovered that I had blood poisoning, so the doctor was laughing at a very sick little kid.”
4.“That my mammogram showed no signs of tumor. I read the report, and each breast had the exact same description. The doctor had written the same report about both sides of my breasts. I got a sonogram and my right had three malignant tumors that had spread to my lymph system. I was in stage 3. After chemo, surgery, radiation, and nightly meds, I’m going strong.”
5.“A doctor told my cousin, ‘Your period can’t hurt that badly.’ She then went on with years and years of painful, almost debilitating periods. They were so bad, but she thought it was normal because that is what she was told. She knew it was not as bad for other girls but was convinced it was just a bad case of cramps every month. Finally, as an adult, a friend convinced her to see their gynecologist, and they ordered an ultrasound. When she went in for the results, the doctor told her she needed surgery ASAP.”
6.“My sister Sharon’s older son, Russell, was 7 years old when he developed crippling pain in his lower right abdomen. My sister’s first thought was appendicitis, so she took him to our local children’s hospital, thinking that he would need surgery right away. Sharon was also sick with strep throat at the time. The doctor examined him and announced that it wasn’t appendicitis, but given Sharon’s condition at the time, the doctor said, ‘He has strep throat in his side’ (his exact words) and sent them home with antibiotics for strep.”
7.“I went to the doctor for test results back in the day. The pain in my stomach had me worried I might have anything from an ulcer to Bigfoot growing in there. The doctor walked into the office and began by saying, ‘I’ve got some bad news. You have cancer.’ The shock was followed by gloom and a hint of despair as the doctor began to outline what the plan of attack was, the next doctor I would have to see, and what my odds were for my kind of cancer. I sat there stunned, trying to take everything in and thinking I should be asking questions or taking notes or something other than just sitting there. The doctor then addresses me as ‘Brian.’ My name is not Brian.”
8.“The local doctor in our small town did not believe I had asthma. I had been diagnosed when I was a little baby. I had to take a day off work every month to see him before he would refill my medications. I ended up going to another doctor who confirmed I had asthma.'”
9.“My daughter wasn’t doing well. She was very pale, bruised easily, and was always tired. So I took her to the doctor. The brilliant doctor who saw her, without a single blood test, pronounced her to be a ‘troubled teen.’ He tried unconscionably hard to pressure me into having her committed to an institution. I was dumbfounded! After seeing a second doctor, out of pocket, he actually tested her, but before the results were in, he said that it was a ‘classic severe case’ of anemia and that she would have been in great danger had she remained untreated. He prescribed a certain kind of iron, and as long as she took it, she was as good as new.”
10.“I remember shadowing an RN during my clinical days. She asked me to walk with her to visit her ultrasound technician friend. During the session, the tech was with a monolingual Spanish-speaking patient, and I was asked if I could help translate the procedure to the patient. I was confident I could utilize my Spanish in medical terminology. However, a doctor stepped into the conversation and stated that I was not in a position to translate. The doctor stated he knew Spanish ‘very well.’ He explained to the patient that they were going to assess for ‘cancer en los huevos’ (cancer in his balls), and the procedure entailed putting the equipment ‘en las pompis (Spanish slang for butt). I observed the poor man’s ego shattered and my jaw dropped in disbelief as I was in no position to enlighten the doctor in Spanish medical terminology.”
11.“When I was in my mid-20s, I started gaining weight. A LOT of weight. So, my doctor put me on a diet. I followed it religiously (weighing my food out to the gram). It was 1,200 calories a day; I was always hungry, never had any energy, and was still gaining weight. Two months later, I went back to my doctor, who started by noting that I was still gaining weight (30 pounds in twp months). He then asked why I wasn’t following the diet he gave me. I told him I was but made the mistake of mentioning how hard it was. He looked me straight in the eye and told me, ‘If you wereactuallyfollowing the diet I gave you, you’d have lost 30 pounds, not gained 30 pounds.”
12.And, lastly: “My 8-year-old son had painful stomach cramps that were misdiagnosed by his pediatrician as hysteria or malingering. I was able to get him admitted to a different doctor for observation. Seeing the residents come in with disinterest after interviewing us was tough. All that changed after a pediatric gastrointestinal specialist finished his examination. He diagnosed the problem as an abdominal migraine. Within minutes, we had several residents stopping in to learn about the gastric migraine and how they could have diagnosed it.”
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