It ’s a minute we all fear , but that eventually happens .

Listen, there is no fighting it, at some point you just start becoming the “older person” in social settings or in your family life.

Which means that sometimes, as the “older person,” you will undoubtedly make references that younger people just don’t get. This makes me want to know: What’s a reference you’ve made that has completely gone over the head of a younger person, and it left you shocked (and maybe feeling old AF)?

Maybe you mentionedDestiny’s Childand your younger cousin told you they had NO ideaBeyoncéwas in a group and always thought she was a solo artist.

Perhaps you showed your kid your old iPod and they asked if it was a cassette player.

Or, maybe you had to explain to someone that the “M” in MTV stood for Music and that they used to play music videos.

Or, perhaps you were talking to a young person aboutThe Gooniesbeing one of your favorite movies growing up, and they just stared back at you blankly before telling you they had never heard of it.

Or, just maybe you had to explain to your co-worker who JTT is, and it left you feeling ancient.

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It’s a moment we all dread, but that eventually happens.

Steve Buscemi in a red hat and hoodie holding a skateboard, with the text, "How do you do, fellow kids?"

Seth Rogen sits at a table with two boys, talking. Text on the image reads "You're too young!" Above in the corner, it says "Good Boys."

Kelly Rowland, Beyoncé, and Michelle Williams pose together, smiling, wearing coordinating studded black leather corsets and black pants

A hand holding an iPod Classic with headphones and an album cover displayed on the screen. The menu shows options like "Videos" and "Music"

Jeff Cohen, Sean Astin, Corey Feldman, and Ke Huy Quan curiously look at a mysterious, old map

Jonathan Taylor Thomas at the 11th Annual Kids' Choice Awards, in a brown shirt, standing in front of an event backdrop