" Y’all got ta stop with that . "

Keke Palmeris not here for anyone’s unsolicited parenting advice.

Yesterday, theNopestar took to Instagram with a message for those who feel the need to offer advice when they haven’t been asked for it.

“Because here’s the thing: I’ve seen it on my page, I’ve seen it on other mothers' pages, and it gets to the point where I don’t think people realize there is privilege in what they’re asking.”

Keke listed some of the things that people have suggested — from breastfeeding to baby formulas to a certain kind of car seat. “Every mom can’t breastfeed,” she noted. “Every mom doesn’t want to breastfeed. Every mom can’t afford formula. Everyone can’t afford the car seat that said it was 555,” she continued, letting her voice trail off. “Y’all gotta stop with that.”

Keke said there are simply better ways to support someone. “If you wanna help somebody pray for them, wish them well, show ‘em love,” she suggested. “Don’t go on their page using some privileged measure of what it takes to be a good mom. ‘Cause you know what it really takes to be a good mom? Loving your child.”

She added, “So the next time you go on someone’s page and try to tell them what they’re doing wrong and what they need to do better whileyourpage is private and can’t nobody critique you, be more demure. Be more mindful.”

“Stop scaring the shit out of mothers!” she wrote in the post’s caption, adding that all the advice does is create “a nervous anxiety-ridden mother” instead of “genuine community and support.”

The post comes just days after Keke was criticized for her son’s car seat in avideoof them riding together, with users commenting on everything from the straps to the placement of the seat.

One user had even randomly told Keke to make sure she’s regularly changing her baby’s diaper. (???)

While Keke didn’t directly comment on the reactions to that particular post, she did like this comment defending her.

You can watch Keke’s latest message here:

Keke Palmer is wearing a white tuxedo with a black bow tie and a red rose on the lapel, posing on a red carpet

Keke Palmer speaks into a microphone at an event, wearing a sheer black top and large hoop earrings. Two other women are blurred in the background

Keke Palmer holding an infant at the Atlanta Film Festival. She wears a leopard-print dress, and the baby is dressed in black

Keke Palmer on the red carpet at a SiriusXM event, wearing an off-shoulder black dress and hoop earrings

Keke Palmer attends an event, wearing a shiny metallic outfit with drop earrings and a braided hairstyle

Keke Palmer speaking into a microphone while wearing a stylish, one-shoulder black dress with a decorative brooch on the right shoulder at a public event

Keke Palmer on the red carpet wearing an elegant, strapless, bejeweled dress and stylish glasses

Two comments discussing car seat safety. One mentions tightening straps, and the other emphasizes proper installation to prevent danger

Instagram comment from carolynparker8884: "He's so cute, but please don't forget to keep that pamper changed,, that's from ME grandma ??❤️? and yes you're doing a good job raising him ?✅?✅."

Comment by queennina1987 mentioning the focus on someone else's parenting rather than acknowledging a great mother and happy baby. Mentions police and doctor's approval