Gray divorcement are on the rise , and we want to hear about your experience .

When you think of divorce, you might think of those whomarried youngand separated young.

But currently, there is a rise in “gray divorce,” which means a divorce at age 50 or older. According to arecent study, gray divorces have doubled from 1990 to 2019 and tripled for adults over age 65.

So, if you got a gray divorce, we want to hear your story. Why did you separate after age 50 and how has your life changed since then?

Maybe you stayed married until the kids were grown and out of the house…

Or maybe you didn’t know you wanted a divorce until you had an empty nest and realized you had grown apart.

Maybe you always wanted to get divorced, but you just didn’t go through with it until later in life.

Or maybe you found out your partner had been lying to you (about finances or infidelity) for your whole marriage and immediately wanted out.

A woman looks upset and raises her hand while a man sitting next to her gestures emphatically during a conversation in a living room setting

A bride and groom figurine stand back-to-back between two split model houses, symbolizing divorce or separation

An older woman and man sitting on a couch with arms crossed, both looking unhappy and not facing each other

A girl sits at a table with her head resting on her arm, appearing sad. In the background, two adults are having an animated discussion

An elderly man with glasses and a checkered shirt sits on a couch, looking at the camera. A woman with her back turned sits beside him

Two individuals sit back to back outdoors, looking upset. The person in the foreground has short hair and rests their head on one hand, while the person in the background looks away

A man and a woman sit back-to-back indoors. The woman, with blonde hair, looks down and touches her shoulder. The man is blurred in the background