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The levels of betrayal and the violation of trust that comes with being cheated on is truly one of the worst feelings in the world.

However, the reasons peoplecheataren’t always that simple. Some are looking for the thrill of secrecy, while others are simply inunhappy relationshipsand trying to find an escape. In some instances, their partners are even aware of what’s happening.

At the same time, the people that they pursue intimate relationships with, whetherone-night standsor prolonged flings, are often left in the dark in regard to their marital status.

After all, it’s reasonable to give someone the benefit and assume they’re single if they approach you first.

So, for those who’ve slept with men who were in committed relationships, we want to know how that panned out.

Did the other partner ever become aware?

If you didn’t know they were in a relationship before, what was your reaction after finding out?

A man comforts a woman sitting on a bed with her head in her hands. Both appear distressed. The man is in casual wear; the woman is in a sleeveless dress

A man looks at a smartphone over his shoulder while lying next to a woman sleeping in bed

A man in a dress shirt and tie stands near a smiling woman sitting on a bed in a stylish room

A table with red and white checkered tablecloth set with two wine glasses, two water glasses, and silverware, adorned with a small vase of purple flowers

A man and two women sit at a kitchen counter. The man and one woman hold hands behind the back of the other woman, who is sitting in between them

Three people reacting in surprise around a table with food and drinks, two holding glasses of champagne