Jennifer filed to divorce the Batman lead on Tuesday , capping months of rumors and venture about their marriage .
Jennifer Lopezonly recently filed for divorce fromBen Affleck, but asEntertainment Tonightreports, the split was “a long time coming.”
The singer officiallyfiledto end their marriage on Tuesday, the same day they had their big Georgia wedding ceremony two years ago, capping months of rumors and speculation about their marriage.
A sourcetellsETthat before the filing, “Ben and Jen had been miserable in their marriage for months.”
“They both felt frustrated in their relationship,” the insider continued, claiming Ben and Jen had allegedly realized the early days of their romance “was more of an infatuation” for both of them.
“The honeymoon phase was very quick for them,” a insidertoldETin a different report. “Their differences came out pretty early on in the relationship after they got married, and they were arguing.”
One of these alleged differences, the source said, was “how public J.Lo was about their life” compared to Ben. “[It] drove a wedge between them. Their relationship was like ‘opposites attract’ until it wasn’t.”
Ben and Jennifer originally dated and got engaged in the early 2000s before calling things off in 2004. They reunited in 2021 in a move that seems to have beeninitiatedby Ben.
As a result, J.Lo has reportedly been left feeling “upset” and “somewhat duped” amid the split.
The insider said Ben “still has love for her,” too. He just “couldn’t handle everything that came with being married to her.”
Thedifferencesin their approach to fame were scupper in J.Lo ’s infotainment , The Greatest Love Story Never Told , released in February 2024 .
In the film , Ben talked about want to keep their relationship more individual after things"crumbled"under the weight of sensitive pressure the first fourth dimension around .
" Getting back together , I say , ' Listen , one of the things I do n’t want is a human relationship on social mass medium , ' " Ben recalled . But he also said he was trying to learn how to compromise . " I sort of realize it ’s not a fair matter to ask . It ’s sort of like you ’re gon na marry a gravy holder captain and you go , ' Well , I do n’t like the water system . ' We ’re just two citizenry with kind of different approaches trying to learn to compromise . "