Former Stay-At-Home Wives And Tradwives, Tell Me What It Was Like And What Prompted Your Divorce

" Honestly , it ’s of import for women to hear these stories . "

Maybe you found yourself living the actually-not-so-ideal version of a lifestyle that many people idealize. What was it like?

Perhaps you just grew out of it — like in a lot of marriages that come to an end, you and your spouse just grew apart in values and personality.

And the dreaded question: how, and why, did it end? Many tradwives report feelingtrapped, and like they don’t have much agency. Many find that their husbands are controlling, or disloyal. Maybe for you, it was something like that; but maybe it was something totally different. Tell me about it!

Two unidentified women, one younger and one older, are sitting on a beach. Both have light hair; the younger wears a hat and the older has long, loose hair

A person in a patterned sweater holds a mug and reads a book on a table

A person sits on the floor next to a washing machine, surrounded by two laundry baskets filled with clothes

A man and a woman, seated on a couch, engage in conversation with a professional holding a clipboard. The setting suggests a counseling or therapy session

A woman sits at the edge of a bed looking concerned while a man sits up in bed behind her. Both appear serious, with their expressions suggesting a tense moment

If you want to share your day-to-day, I’d love to hear what it was like, from taking care of toddlers by yourself (kudos), to cooking for your family, to having some alone time when the kids were in school. You can share anything that sticks out.#

Maybe you found yourself living the actually-not-so-ideal version of a lifestyle that many people idealize. What was it like?#

Perhaps you just grew out of it — like in a lot of marriages that come to an end, you and your spouse just grew apart in values and personality.#

And the dreaded question: how, and why, did it end? Many tradwives report feelingtrapped, and like they don’t have much agency. Many find that their husbands are controlling, or disloyal. Maybe for you, it was something like that; but maybe it was something totally different. Tell me about it!#

If you want to share your day-to-day, I’d love to hear what it was like, from taking care of toddlers by yourself (kudos), to cooking for your family, to having some alone time when the kids were in school. You can share anything that sticks out.

Maybe you found yourself living the actually-not-so-ideal version of a lifestyle that many people idealize. What was it like?

Perhaps you just grew out of it — like in a lot of marriages that come to an end, you and your spouse just grew apart in values and personality.

And the dreaded question: how, and why, did it end? Many tradwives report feelingtrapped, and like they don’t have much agency. Many find that their husbands are controlling, or disloyal. Maybe for you, it was something like that; but maybe it was something totally different. Tell me about it!