" Taking care of your soundbox now can make a vast dispute in your 40s . "
They always say hindsight is 20/20 and it couldn’t be more true. When you grow up, you learn all sorts of life lessons and continue to do so well into adulthood.
ReddituserAdditional-You3342asked, “What is something people in their 20s might not realize will significantly impact them as they reach their 40s?” A ton of people got real and chimed in with their thoughts. Here are some of the most impactful things they shared:
1.“Life is short and your time is incredibly valuable. Spend it well.”
2.“Sleep is really important and you can’t get away with not sleeping for one day.”
— u / Bella_Asian
3.“When you marry a person, you marry into their family. If they have a terrible person in their family, and they do not set boundaries with them, that’s a red flag. Family is complicated, but there are lots of stories about horrible in-laws causing divorces.”
4.“Skipping the work needed to sustain relationships. Friends in your 20s come easily. Friends in your 40s and up take the effort of a part-time job.”
— u / Snugglebutt85
5.“Benefits of fitness. My father started exercising regularly in his 40s. Nothing extreme, just consistent. He is now 87 years old and still in great shape. All of his doctors agree that the reason he is in such good health is because he started exercising regularly.”
6.“The character of the person they choose to have a long-term relationship with, or even marry. The single most important decision someone will ever make.”
— atomic number 92 / SueYouBlues
7.“Laying around in the sun with no protection on.”
8.“I think a lot of people in their 20s underestimate how important their health choices are. It’s easy to think you’re invincible, but those late nights, bad eating habits, and lack of exercise can catch up to you. Taking care of your body now can make a huge difference in your 40s.”
— u / RelevantFoot7196
9.“Your hearing. Loud noise over time is bad and not fixable.”
10.“How long it takes to get good at something. For example, if you want to become a good writer, you will have to spend hundreds of hours writing bad, mediocre, and decent text first. And the same applies to painting, musical instruments, or any skill. As you age and gather responsibilities, your available energy and time for such activities will generally only decrease. It is very easy to keep delaying this strenuous and sometimes painful process of getting good, and you end up without hobbies and non-career related skills in your 40s. And that might be enough for some, but it might not be for you.”
— uranium / Fimbulwinter91
11.“Don’t just stretch. Activate and use your muscles! That’s a lot of what yoga is as well. Use them or lose them, that’s how injuries happen.”
12.“How you treat people. We are all people and deserve kindness and empathy to an extent. In your 20s, it’s usually not in the forefront of your mind.”
— u / Mamaofthreecrazies
13.“That tiny dream you have of doing that thing for a job? Go after that.”
14.“Stop slouching. Trust me.”
— u / sarasan
15.“More than anything, start saving as early as you can. It’s not easy, and I would certainly not blame anyone for having a hard time with it early on. But the moment you start making more consistently is the moment you start saving!”
16.“Emotional trauma you don’t deal with literally turns into physical trauma. Stop clenching your jaw. Get that trauma out of your body. Talk to someone. Your bones will thank you for it. My father doesn’t have discs between his back bones because he thought he could tough it out.”
— u / Shh - poster
17.“Who you have children with.”
18.“What I’m most surprised about as a 45-year-old is how my life, while good, has no resemblance to the plans I had for it in my 20s. “Man plans; God laughs.”
— u / tmroyal
19.“There is a lot less life than you think. If you are living to work, you’re not living at all.”
20.“The fact that their parents helped them so much. I.e. paid for their college, gifted them their down payment for a house, or called in a favor that got them a good entry-level job.”
— u / palbuddy1234
21.“You are not trapped in your job, career path, hobbies, interests, or friendships. You are young and able to explore and try new things relatively consequence-free. A lot of people in their 20s don’t think about this concept. They go to school and work, then wake up in their 30s or 40s and think f–ck, why am I in this position? Take the time to be cognizant of the path you’re on, and what is fulfilling, interesting, and important to you. Of course, being physically and mentally healthy are patterns that are good to ingrain when you’re young as well, as others have mentioned. Take responsibility for finding your calling and not settling or being complacent in the first hand you’re dealt.”
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